Author: SCG

How to Deal with a Delusional Person

This post is about how to deal with a delusional person.

There are four important tips in better handling a stubborn and delusional person.

What is a delusional thinking?

A delusion is a belief that is clearly false and that indicates an abnormality in the affected person’s content of thought.

The false belief is not accounted for by the person’s cultural or religious background or his or her level of intelligence.

What is stubbornness?

Stubbornness is a personality trait in which a person refuses to change their opinion about something or refuses to change their mind about a decision that they have made.

Stubborn people have a resolute adherence to their own ideas and opinions.

Stubborn and delusional people are incredibly frustrating and annoying to be around, talk to, and have anything in common with.

Well, that is my opinion, but do you agree with my assessment?

Toxic and narcissistic people can often be the most delusional of them all.

I remember a man who was grossly overweight, stressed beyond belief, and was on more medication for blood pressure and other issues than you could imagine.

When his wife and friends warned him “you need to start dieting and being healthy,” how do you reckon this delusional man responded?

“I am perfectly fine and in perfect shape, there is nothing wrong with me!” he said.

This poor man died awfully young, due to his delusional thinking.

Now I know that is an extreme example and a tragic one, but it just goes to show you how dangerous being stubborn and delusional can be.

I know people who spend beyond their means, and are financially ruined, but they too believe “I am doing nothing wrong.”

I know people who smoke like chimneys, or drink like fish, but they too believe “I am doing nothing wrong.”

I know people who genuinely like to be aggressive and disagreeable for no reason at all and believe “I am doing nothing wrong.”

So how on earth do you deal with a delusional person?

If you are dating or married to one, I feel sorry for you, as I dated a delusional narcissistic woman once, and it was utter hell.

I would rather date an agreeable person, than a disagreeable person.

Remember they are looking to argue, and fight with anybody, especially those who expose the truth to them.

Here is how to deal with a delusional person:

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#1 – Be Routed in Reality

One thing that is incredibly annoying and frustrating with delusional people, is they live in a fantasy world.

The fat overweight and unhealthy man thinks he has the body and health of an Adonis.

The chain-smoking woman who coughs her lungs out thinks she is the epitome of health.

The excessive gambling addict without a penny to his name thinks he is rich.

The nasty and rude obnoxious woman believes she is God’s gift to men.

The narcissistic and arrogant boss thinks everybody that works for him loves their job.

Give me a break.

What do I mean by be routed in reality?

It is constantly seeking the truth, the real world, the world where behind the lies, behind the mask, behind the bullshit, you will be free.

With the delusional person the truth will set you free.

I was once a gambling addict for many years, and I became clean and sober in 2019.

I was finally free of this horrible addiction that was destroying my life.

I remember having former friends who were gambling addicts just like me.

I tried to convince them that gambling is a lie.

I would tell them, “you don’t need to do this, I hate seeing you lose all your money.”

But these delusional guys would not want to hear it.

“You are wrong SCG, I have a fool proof formula to beat the casino! Trust me I will be a millionaire in no time!” is what they would tell me.

There is no cheat code in gambling.

There is NO fool proof way to beat the casino.

The house always wins.

I will repeat that, the HOUSE ALWAYS WINS.

For a split moment I was almost convinced to be sucked into that addiction and begin gambling all over again.

Then I remembered why I was out, and how delusional and wrong they were.

“Gambling ruined my life,” I said to myself, “live in the real world SCG.”

You must at the very least even if they do not want to hear it, live in the reality, and face the truth, even if it hurts.

The delusional person wants to create a fake life, and a fake reality.

And the more you associate with them, they want you to fit into this fake existence.

Stay in the real world.

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#2 – Watch What They Do

When it comes to a delusional person always watch they do, never what they say.

The delusional person like a narcissist tells everybody what they want to hear.

And even themselves, just to make people feel better.

It is a simple yet effective tactic to simply deflect the attention away from them.

There was once a woman I dated who never had a driving license.

She was in her 30s, and she had failed a few times in the past.

But she had gotten lazy, and happy to have others drive her around.

When we were dating, she promised me the following:

“In the next 6 months I will do my theory.”

“In the next 12 months I will apply for my test.”

“In the next 1-2 years maximum I will own a car.”

What do you reckon she did?

In the years I knew her, she just did her theory test, which expired because she left it for way too long.

She never kept to one of her promises.

I motivated and encouraged her to drive because I mean why the hell not?

But she was utterly delusional, lazy and a waste of time.

She would always make excuses as to why she never persisted with getting the license.

She would blame the following:

The weather was not good

They are not accepting any applicants

I do not need to drive I can use the bus.

But on top of all that bullshit, she would show off and straight up LIE to people how great a driver she was.

“I am the best driver in the world, I am getting a car next week.”

Ridiculous.

Delusional people are fabricators of the truth.

They will exaggerate until the cows come home.

They will manipulate others to believe their bullshit.

Never ever believe a word they say.

Never ever trust them either.

Watch what they do, their actions, never their words.

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#3 – Request Compromise

The very least you can do with a delusional person is to request a compromise.

What is a compromise?

A compromise an agreement or settlement of a dispute that is reached by each side making concessions.

Now I know exactly what you are thinking:

“But SCG they are stubborn, difficult, they never agree to anything I ask or say?”

I get all that but if you NEVER ask, you NEVER get or KNOW.

There was once a guy I knew who had a drug addiction.

He was so wrapped up in his addiction, I did everything in my power to help him.

Unfortunately, he never wanted to listen, learn, or know he was harming himself.

“I got it all figured out, there is nothing wrong with me,” he said.

So, I asked for a very reasonable and good compromise.

“I love hanging out with you, but I do not want to socialize with you when you are stoned or taking drugs. I want to be with you when you are sober, deal?”

Originally, he got offended by my request, and said no.

But over time, he reached out to me.

“I heard what you had to say, and ok, I will hang out with you sober.”

I hung out with this guy every few weeks for a chat and a walk and he stuck to his word.

We never discussed his addiction.

We never discussed his issues.

We just walked, talked, and hung out as he was good company.

You are going to be disappointed to think you can convince a delusional person.

Or worse you are going to change a delusional person.

Give up the fantasy.

We are not here on this earth to change and lecture people that are stubborn.

All we can do is show we care.

And the very minimum they can do is compromise.

But what if they do not compromise?

You need to then take a good long serious think about your relationship with them.

I have had to cut ties with many stubborn delusional people.

I do not have the time or energy to butt heads and argue with such people.

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#4 – Disengage

I touched on this in the previous point, but you need to possibly have a seriously long hard look at the delusional person in your life.

Delusional people are draining, negative and sorry to admit this, a complete waste of your time and life.

A leopard will never change its spots.

A disagreeable person will always be disagreeable.

A stubborn person is stubborn.

Ignorant people are always going to be ignorant.

Uneducated people will never seek to learn.

Arrogant people believe they know better.

Make friends and associate with genuine people that want the best for you instead.

The time and energy invested in delusional people has a terrible ROI.

You will hardly gain anything positive by continuing to do so, nor get anywhere.

Do yourself a favour and disengage.

Valid Reasons to Block Someone

This post is about the valid reasons to block someone.

There are four valid reasons to block someone and go no contact.

I am one of the biggest fans out there of blocking a person and going no contact.

When I talk about walking away and the power behind it, I include cutting ties and contact with people in the same vein.

I get a lot of mixed comments on my posts and videos regarding this subject:

“I cannot bring myself to block them.”

“I find blocking to be extremely immature.”

“I see no value in blocking a person.”

“I don’t understand how blocking is going to help?”

“I do not block people; it is not in my nature.”

Once upon a time I was dating a seriously toxic woman, who after I broke up with her, I indeed blocked her and went no contact.

She was close to my late father, who called me harsh for blocking her.

I advised him to do the same, and he scoffed at the idea:

“I do not block people SCG, I am better than that.”

In the period he did not do so, she bombarded him with calls, texts and more.

When he was working, she messaged him and called him non-stop.

He never answered nor replied but stood with his ideology.

It took only a month later when he asked me, “SCG how do I block someone?”

I rest my case.

I asked him what finally lead him to seeing the light, and he apologised.

“She is too much, too toxic and too annoying. I obviously support your decision to move on, but I genuinely thought she would not stop bothering me,” he told me.

Perhaps me blocking her and my late father not doing so, allowed her to channel her energy and time into getting him to convince me to see her.

She failed miserably, and the poor guy is dead now God rest his soul.

Blocking is NOT immature.

Blocking can be EFFECTIVE.

Blocking sends a truly clear message.

Blocking is ESSENTIAL in a day and age of Narcissism on the rise.

Don’t be like my Dad please.

Here are some valid reasons to block someone:

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#1 – Peace of Mind

The first valid reason to block someone is so you can return eventually to a state of peace and tranquillity.

I often say in most of my content that people should prioritize peace over happiness in life.

Happiness is temporary, can be superficial, and is far too short term.

Tranquillity is pure bliss, a peaceful mind thinks better, makes better decision, and is far happier overall.

You must remember why you are blocking a person.

Let us return to the example of the toxic ex-girlfriend I was seeing.

When I was dating her the relationship was toxic.

We fought all the time, literally almost once a day.

We shouted, screamed, cried, and other negative emotions.

We hardly ever agreed, there was no compromise at all.

The bad MASSIVELY outweighed the good.

Her narcissistic personality and her obsession with being toxic, made dating her impossible, based on my needs and empathetic ways.

It was a complete disaster.

Leading up to the blocking by me, you do not know the hours spent arguing.

The many warnings of “I am unhappy,” by me.

The many times I begged her “to see where I am coming from.”

The countless efforts to “talk things through,” which fell on deaf ears.

The precious years I wasted flogging a dead horse and going nowhere.

To block a person means you are utterly fed up, defeated, insulted, and done.

It really is closing that chapter on that person for good.

It is a powerful and effective way to do so.

So, when I finally and have remained since blocked that ex of mine, I closed the chapter on her presence in my life for good.

In a moment of weakness and vulnerability if she were not blocked, I would have reached out to her to speak.

Or worse, I would have allowed her to hoover me back into her life.

Which would have been a disaster, especially as a few months after we split the pandemic occurred and my Dad tragically died.

The peace I have now no longer speaking or having her in my life, is irreplaceable.

Block to have peace.

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#2 – Block the Negativity

This may seem obvious but when you block a person, you are blocking their negative input and impact they may be having on your life.

You are the people you surround yourself with.

There is a great example of a woman I know who was a natural born winner.

She is good looking, smart, successful, and extremely positive.

However, she had a bit of bad luck when it came to dating, which was odd.

She was ready to settle down, but all she could find were the wrong type of men.

Then as she got older, she made an enormous mistake, she settled.

The guy she ended up dating and then marrying was a negative loser.

He was overweight, lazy and lacked ambition.

He had no job, no money, no prospects.

He was entitled, selfish and negative.

Being the good kind person she was, she loved him and wanted it to work.

It did not and failed spectacularly.

I saw her after she married him, and she looked awful.

“My life went down the toilet the moment I married him,” she admitted.

Her career took a nosedive, and she ended up losing her job.

She was eating crap and started taking up smoking due to the stress.

She was spending too money supporting her lowlife of a partner.

She finally filed for divorce and lost all she had, moving back to her parents.

Yes guys, it can happen to women too.

When they were finally divorced, she blocked him completely refusing to never or ever see or speak to him again.

Is it any surprise after doing so, she bounced back dramatically?

She started winning again.

I once dated a loser, and my life went down the toilet too.

I broke up with a loser, and guess what, I blocked the negativity.

It does not have to be because you want to be successful or aim high in life.

They may be abusing you.

Or insulting you.

Draining your energy.

Block a person to block their negativity

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#3 – Block Temptation

The next valid reason to block a person is to block all forms of temptation to re-engage and talk to them again.

I learnt this the hard way.

My most recent toxic relationship was with a woman who was a complete disaster in her life, not to mention a narcissist.

And I am embarrassed to admit, that I broke up with her twice in total.

Once a few years back and I buckled and crumbled.

The first time I broke up with her, I had no idea about narcissism, and found myself in a dark place emotionally.

I lead myself to believe it was MY FAULT that we split up.

That somehow, I made the relationship fail completely.

That all the blame lay with me.

And what was worse, was that I had not blocked the narcissist at all.

Every so often a text would come through from her, which would send me spiralling.

It would usually be along the following lines:

“Not a day goes by when I do not miss you, I love you SCG.”

“I cannot go on without you, please give me another chance.”

“I know where I went wrong, I promise we can make it work.”

Like a fool I buckled under the pressure and went back to her to give it a good go.

It failed spectacularly.

In fact, it was so much worse, and SHE was so much worse.

Not trusting myself on the second time round I insisted I had to block her.

People called me harsh, ruthless, cold, and so on.

But who really cares what people think right?

However, the reason to do so was to block any temptation of going back.

Unlike normal people, narcissists are extremely good at manipulating people.

And manipulating situations to work in their favour too.

They know just what to say to convince you.

They know just how to successfully push your buttons.

They know just how to trigger you.

Be like the addict coming clean of an addiction.

Cut the supply, remove the temptation.

Block to remove the temptation.

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#4 – Close the Chapter

The final reason to block someone is to officially close the chapter on that person and their stay and presence in their life.

It is metaphorically locking them away and on top of that throwing away the key.

If you have blocked them, why not delete their number too?

They cannot contact you.

You SHOULDN’T contact them.

So why on earth should you have their details?

Or in fact any reminders of them at all?

My ex is finished in my life, and I am grateful for the experiences I have learnt.

But I also know there are plenty of women out there better suited to me.

Who will make my life better, not make it worse?

The Sopranos ended, as did their time in your life.

IT IS OVER!

Close the chapter!

Close the book!

The grass IS greener!

Move on and live a far more fulfilling and enjoyable life as a result.

How to Handle a Control Freak

This post is about how to handle a control freak.

There are four effective steps you can apply to handling a controlling person.

How can we define a control freak?

In the slang of psychology, the colloquial term control freak describes a person with a personality disorder characterized by undermining other people, usually by way of controlling behaviour manifested in the ways that they act to dictate the order of things in a social situation.

Who are some of the typical control freaks we meet in life?

Parents

Siblings

Extended Family

Friends, and associates

Co-workers

Teachers and lecturers

Bosses

Entrepreneurs like myself, do not like being under the ruse of other people, aka we do not like being controlled.

Millionaire self-made businessman Sir Alan Sugar said, “you would have to drag me kicking and screaming to ever work for another person again.”

I have been successfully self-employed for over a decade now, and I champion what Sir Sugar says.

There is nothing wrong with law and order, authority, and rules and so on, but control freaks, well that is a different story.

What are some typical signs of a control freak to look out for?

They are often so enmeshed in your personal space and life, that they can see your every movement, to harshly criticise, comment and judge.

They never accept the blame and make you the emotional punching bag for their failing and mistakes in their lives.

They need to be the centre of attention, the life of the party and the main topic of conversation always.

They guide and force you to do what THEY believe is correct for THEM, and NEVER what is best for YOU.

Control freaks are some of the most annoying and frustrating people you will ever meet in your lifetime.

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#1 – Limit Your Interactions

The first way to handle any type of control freak is to limit as much interaction as possible, contact and socializing as possible.

Now this may be awfully hard if you are married to, or working for a control freak, and sadly I do not know what to say in that situation.

Other than you need to have a good honest conversation with them and how you feel, because the longer you avoid it, the worst it gets.

Remember if you give MOST people an inch these days, I can guarantee you they will take a mile from you, and even more.

There was once a story of a woman who was working a great job for a control freak of a boss.

Because she was very polite and timid, she just did what he said, and more than was required.

She worked late nights, weekends, and extra unpaid hours.

But her control freak of a boss had no idea she did not like it, because she never said anything to him.

Had she confronted him and told him “this is too much,” he may have cut back the work.

Regardless of you need to limit your interactions with these people.

I remember there was a woman in our social circle was a complete control freak.

Everything had to be on her terms, she was the queen bee.

We always had to meet at places SHE found to be socially acceptable.

We always had to meet at times that SUITED HER.

We always had to organize and rearrange our lives to HER NEEDS.

Is it any surprise nobody hangs out with this annoying woman anymore?

Not to brag, I was the first to cut away, I remember saying:

“I cannot stand socializing with his person anymore. I literally have to rearrange my entire life to suit her needs, I’m done.”

What you will do is re-establish your worth and confidence by limiting contact.

You know who you are.

You know your self-value.

You know your likes and dislikes.

You know your wants and needs!

The control freak only cares about one person alone, and that is themselves and their image.

Care for yourself instead, limit your interactions.

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#2 – Don’t Share Any Information

Remember, the control freak is a nosey and annoying person.

They want to know every person’s business, what their plans are, what they are up to, where they are going, what they spend their money on, and so much more.

That is why you must not share any information with the control freak.

And even if you must, keep it very vague, minimal, and more.

When I started out in business all those years ago, I shouted it from the rooftops and shared it with the world.

I was met with abuse, negativity, doubt, fearmongering, and so much more.

Now I keep my head down, I work hard, and I aim to achieve my goals in silence.

Because the best revenge is massive success.

Here are some examples of things to keep private from the control freak:

Your Dating Life:

A control freak of a parent will end up dictating your romantic life, and you do NOT want that.

They will start telling you how to love your partner, how to live, how to have a relationship.

It is NONE OF THEIR BUSINESS.

Your Professional Life:

A control freak will dictate to you how to approach your career, your promotion, how to approach your boss etc.

Do NOT listen to them!

You got your career yourself, and you are well on your way to succeeding on your own accord.

Your Finances:         

The control freak will spy on your savings and bank account if they can get away with it, and especially if you allow them.

Nothing is more private than how much capital you hold in your accounts etc.

Your Goals

If you aim to start a business, get fit, pursue a passion project, be sure the control freak will no doubt start dictating all of that.

Or worse of all, start convincing you NOT to pursue your goals!

Keep that mouth of yours shut with the control freak.

Do not discuss your moves.

Do not discuss your plans.

NEVER discuss your goals and aspirations.

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#3 – Learn to Say No

Remember “No” is a complete sentence.

And learning to say no regularly and effectively is a brilliant way to handle almost any type of control freak out there.

If you are an empathetic person like me, most likely you have been very agreeable for most of your life.

And the reason why you were conditioned to be agreeable is to get people to like you.

This is extremely common and is why narcissists can take advantage of you.

So, you agree to a job you dislike.

Agree to socialize with people who are not right for you.

Agree to do things that harm your health and wellbeing just to “fit in.”

Agree to work overtime because you “fear losing your job.”

You agree to things that ultimately disagree with your life.

When you start saying no, you start living, seriously.

Here are some examples of the NO’s I said over the years:

I said no to controlling family members

I said no to controlling friends

I said no to controlling people overall

I said no to controlling projects that did not suit me

I said no to controlling people in business

Here are some of the benefits of saying no specially to control freaks:

You immediately regain control of your life

You increase your confidence dramatically

You start to be more at peace with yourself

You are more focused on what really matters

Years ago, I was once dating a woman who was a complete utter control freak.

Again, all on her terms, all her way, all her timings, etc.

My work suffered as a result, as did my mental state, and my wellbeing overall.

I started to act and feel miserable.

Like I was a prisoner to this woman dictating my life.

I started to say no, and guess what, she broke up with me!

Best thing that ever happened.

No is a COMPLETE sentence.

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#4 – Build Boundaries

You cannot handle a control freak if you regularly allow them to dictate almost every aspect of your lifestyle.

That is why you must build and maintain healthy boundaries.

They are just people at the end of the day, and if you are too reliant on them for whatever reason, you must distance yourself and grow up.

Here are some examples of healthy boundaries with a control freak:

If they insist on meeting socially, you suggest something that suits you as much as them, and if they do not comply do not meet up.

Say “it is not all your way, I would like to go here, and do this.”

If they insist on managing and sorting through your finances, again say no:

“This is my money, my investments, my bank accounts. You have no right to look through my statements.”

If they insist on controlling your romantic life, once again, say the following:

“It is my choice who I date, and HOW I date them. I am not dating YOU!”

If they insist on talking you out of a career, a goal or a business say:

“It is my life; I will live it however I wish.”

And when you say these things act on them, there is where the boundary is.

Words and talk are cheap.

But you need action behind it.

You may need to go no contact and remain no contact.

You may need to cut them completely out of your life.

Or you may keep them at arms lengths.

Whatever needs to be done, do it, please.

Do not let a control freak dictate your life, you will only end up miserable if you do.