How to Attract Any Person
This post is about how to attract any person into your life.
I will show you 5 tips on how to attract any person into your life, and an incredibly special powerful bonus tip if you stay with me to the end of this post.
Based on personal experience life operates in different stages or as spiritual people refer to as “seasons.”
As you are aware, we traditionally have 4 seasons in a year, spring, summer, autumn/fall, and winter.
And like the seasons of the year, we have seasons in our lives.
So, there are seasons of happiness, success, despair, love, and loneliness.
Unfortunately, most people seem to drag these seasons out for the rest of their lives due to lack of self-awareness or a complete loss of identity.
- Good and bad times come and go.
- Better days always come.
When you cannot see a light at the end of the tunnel, it is usually because you are trapped in the current scenario.
It is important to grasp this when it comes to attracting somebody into your life.
How often do you hear or have said the following?
“I will never meet somebody!”
“All the good people are taken!”
“I tried everything!”
“I give up on dating!”
This is because you are dwelling in the season of loneliness or being single.
By focusing on the fact, you are down on your luck and you cannot find somebody only emphasizes that feeling of despair and frustration.
And if you did not know by now, you are what you think about all day long.
So, if you are sad and depressed because you have nobody in your life to love and have a relationship, you will constantly attract that into your life.
Yes, you are attracting what you put out.
People will pick up on your vibe, and 9 times out of 10 even if you meet the perfect person, you will end up messing it up because you are putting off the wrong type of signals.
That is where and why you are going wrong; it is all in your mind!
Never fear, because I have 6 tried and trusted ways for you to attract any person into your life.
It can be an ex, your soul mate literally anybody!
What I will teach you is amazingly simple, but extremely powerful.
However lastly before I reveal these tips it is important for you to have an open mind and fresh perspective.
Chances are you are reading this post and you have tried almost everything.
Well let me move you out of the season of loneliness and desperation and move INTO a season of happiness, love, and relationships.
Sound good to you?
Here are the 5 ways to attract any person into your life with an extra bonus tip at the end of this post!
#1 – Develop Your Confidence
There is a fine line between confidence and arrogance.
I see it all the time with my friends, clients, or people on my social media.
People are faking being confident and acting arrogance, in the hope of coming off more attractive.
When single people do this, it is truly a nightmare.
Because they are acting in a rude and obnoxious way and are putting OFF any GOOD potential suitors by being this way.
If you act rude, you will attract rude people.
Instead focus on becoming more confident instead of arrogant.
By being confident you are believing in yourself, that you deserve a good quality partner in your life and will not settle for any less.
But again, be incredibly careful here, do not think you deserve a multibillionaire or a supermodel only!
Be realistic, and understand you are worthy of love and happiness, as are all people.
So, believe in yourself, and believe that you are enough and there is somebody out there who will appreciate you for who you are.
I strongly recommend that you work tirelessly on building your confidence, and one brilliant way to do that is to become the best version of yourself.
#2 – Become a Better Version of Yourself
Comparing yourself to who you were yesterday is a fantastic way to boost your confidence and ultimately improve yourself.
So, for example if yesterday you were smoking a lot, drinking, and gambling, try not do any of those vices today.
Or if you were doing something that was wrong, had a negative impact on your mind, body and soul yesterday try make it right today.
My point being is improve yourself daily.
If you hate your career or your job, find something you feel passionate about and go and pursue it!
If you hate your body, get yourself a personal trainer or a workout plan and rebuild your health!
If you dislike your personality, read books, and find mentors to improve your negative traits and become better.
If you work everyday to be slightly better than you were yesterday (take baby steps), then you will without realizing it bargain with the future.
Yes, your future self will benefit from that jog you went on, or that cigarette you did not smoke etc.
And you will look in the mirror one day and not only be shocked by who you see in the mirror but be proud of who you see too.
You will attract a perfect mate because you have worked so hard on being the best version of yourself.
#3 – Create Clear Goals on Love
Modern relationships are usually a mess because people have no idea what they genuinely want.
They get themselves into situationships which are the worst kind of relationships.
A situationship is basically a relationship purely out of convenience.
Both partners have either been together too long that they are totally dependent on one another, or they are just with each other for completely superficial reasons.
You need to sit down and have a serious mature think about what it is you genuinely want out of a romantic partner.
If you want to just have fun and fool around, love is not for you.
However, if you want to have a relationship and get married be clear on that.
Perhaps you only want to live with somebody and not get married.
Maybe you do not want kids.
Whatever your goals are on love, make them crystal clear.
That way you will know EXACTLY what to look out for and what to avoid.
Do not go in BLIND to dating, instead go out there knowing what you do want, and what you DO NOT want!
#4 – Focus on the Positives
When I left my ex narcissistic partner, it was one of the most miserable and difficult days of my dating life.
However, looking back a year later I cannot believe how lucky I was to get out!
That is the thing, and nobody will ever tell you this, but you need to hear this.
If for example you wish you were with anybody in a relationship for the sake of if:
You WILL be happier alone than in an unhappy relationship.
My point is focus on the positives!
I live my life with minimal regrets!
I do not regret any woman that rejected or dumped me, or any relationship that did not work out.
Instead I focus on the positives.
You need to do this too.
Think of the following:
- You have your health.
- Regardless of your age, you will always be young enough for love. (Love has no age limit!)
- You have experience behind you.
- You have learnt from your lessons.
Technology and social media allow people to meet and connect easier than ever before.
You are lucky to be alive, and there are always so many people out there looking for love in the exact same position as you.
You just have not met them yet, so please be patient and realize that at any moment, cupid will send that special person your way, and especially if you are a positive person.
So be excited by that and get ready to meet the person you have always dreamed of meeting.
#5 – Cut Out the Bad Vibes
Believe it or not there are negative and bad vibes that are often sabotaging your ability to attract a person into your life.
This can for example be your best friend, family, or other social circles.
Jealousy and envy run through so many people these days, and you may have met somebody, but they will ridicule them or worse bring you down to make you feel self-conscious about it.
My advice is to cut out ALL bad vibes and toxic people.
If you know that somebody or a group of people are making dating harder for you, cut all contact.
Walking away from toxic people is a must, especially if you are looking to better yourself and attract a person into your life.
A personal example of cutting out bad vibes was my gambling.
I was a former gambling addict, and I used to lose romantic partners because they hated the fact, I would lose money and be addicted to going to the casino.
By cutting that out of my life, I have become a better and more attractive version of myself.
Perhaps even smoking may be putting off your potential partner too?
Whatever is negative or bad in your life, make sure you cut it out ASAP!
*BONUS TIP* Live in the End!
The most powerful and simplest way to attract any person into your life is to live in the end.
I have spoken many times about this subject and simply put this is something you can apply to all other aspects of your life too!
By living in the end, you set yourself a natural and attractive vibe to attract more abundance and success.
Therefore, by living in the end I mean acting even though you are single, that you are in a loving and happy relationship.
By doing this you are sending out a signal to the world that you are happy in your own skin, and you are ALREADY receiving love and you have a person in your life to have a relationship with.
Simply adopting this powerful mentality will make you a love magnet.
Every person will want to know you better and find you EXTREMELY attractive.
By living in the end, you are eliminating the following negative traits:
And you are replacing them with feelings of:
This is the real serious key to attracting any person = to act like they already in your life.
You will stop worrying, and stressing out over being single, and live an abundant life.
And you are 99% more likely to attract your soul mate this way too.
Best of luck!