“Any form of over-indulgence creates within the body warning signs of destruction.”
When we are not on the right path or more importantly not focused on our goals or visions, there is a common problem that occurs.
And that is putting it lightly.
For when I say the word problem, more so over you are dealt with problems!
That being said, you are now fighting off a flu, more unexpected work, or your spouse asks for a break up.
It happens all of a sudden, and can be overwhelming to us all.
Therefore, you must ask yourself an even bigger and deeper question when things occur.
And I know it can be difficult to do so, considering the impact it can have on our lives.
That question is “is this a sign from the universe?”
It is actually a question that has been thrown about far too often, and too literally these days, especially in movies, and in television shows.
Something happens “oh it’s a sign.”
Or even something doesn’t happen, “it’s a sign!”
I’ve always believed that the law of attraction, the universe, the divine, God is always working.
What that means is even when you least expect it, or cannot make sense of anything, the law of attraction is working.
Perhaps you have just gone bankrupt.
Well the lesson there is to be appreciative of money.
As a young man making pretty decent money, I took it for granted for sure, but going bankrupt and losing my first business made me that much more appreciative.
Perhaps you have just been fired from your job that you gave your all in for the last decade or so.
It just doesn’t sit well with you, because you gave everything only to be tossed aside like you didn’t even matter.
You may have a mortgage, a family, a flurry of bills to pay and boom you’ve just been sacked.
Well perhaps this is because you have now got to go on a NEW path and better path.
Believe it or not, a better job and career could be just around the corner.
Or how about you have just broken up with your sweetheart, or caught them cheating.
Either way for every single person on the planet, break ups are tough.
All kinds, there are no exceptions.
Yet, did you ever consider that the true love or soul mate of your life is now on their way thanks to the fact you are single?
I remember breaking up with an ex narcissist girlfriend.
And despite being summer the very night we split, a storm hit our city, there were winds, rain, and it was freezing.
I was locked out of my home in the cold as the door slammed in my face in the heat of an argument.
Looking back on it, it appeared just like the universe was literally closing the door on that chapter in my life, only to open the door to a new one.
I’ve noticed that whilst of course like we all do there are many regrets in my life, in the grand scheme of things, everything has happened for the better.
A good philosophy to have is that it always works out for the best.
So if you are currently wallowing in self-pity at a break up, as somebody who has had plenty of romantic disappointments in my life, I can tell you in the long run, that person was not right for you.
And you will also never be good enough for the wrong person, so why waste your time wallowing over them?
The bankruptcy of my business was another shock to me, especially as a former gambling addict.
I had to lose my business, and officially quit gambling before truly seeing how unappreciative I was about money.
And the type of work I did was just not fulfilling for me, however the SCG Show is easily one of the best projects I have ever worked on, and my most proud.
So these signs are in fact clues.
And these clues are trying to encourage us to make necessary changes.
Or move in different directions.
And I have noticed that the more you fight it, and ignore the signs, the worse things get.
You can try convince yourself better, but the universe always wants what is best for you.
So therefore why fight against it?
Statistically speaking, staying with a narcissistic person in a romantic setting would have lead me down a further path of spiritual and mental destruction.
So do not question it, or fight against it.
Instead trust, and the more life experiences you have, the more you will just begin to go with the flow.
Here are some signs you may want to look out for.
Perhaps you have recently got into a brand new relationship?
Or you have a terrific new job?
Or you have had some positive life changing news?
A high amount of joy, is a massive sign from the universe, and it usually means you are on the right path.
Take me as an example, if you are an in a relationship and you are stressed and have a constant feeling of anxiety it’s not a good sign.
But if the joy is almost overwhelming it’s the universe telling you to stay on course, and keep doing whatever it is you are doing, because it is indeed working.
Have you experienced physical pain recently?
For example with me with my narcissistic ex, I started experiencing unusual pain in my head.
I put it down to stress, and then it transferred to my neck.
Get it? – Pain in the neck?
That is what my ex was, a pain in the neck.
The physical pain actually resembled what was in store for me in the foreseeable future.
On top of that, I ignored it – and things only just got worse and worse.
Never ignore physical pain you experience, especially if it just happens randomly or all of a sudden.
Have you ever had a song stuck in your head recently?
Or perhaps a particular phrase?
I was having the lyric from a musical “there’s got to be something better,” when I was working in an awful job.
Sure enough, I was right, and when I quit and started working alone for myself my life changed for the better.
Lastly always be prepared to ask for guidance, but from the universe or god or whatever you believe in.
For example I always asked “is this the right thing to do?”
Sure enough with a little bit of patience and belief, it was.
Much to a lot of cynics’ beliefs, the universe always wants what is best for you.
And it will show you in ways you would never possibly imagine so, that it truly does.
Have faith, and just go with the flow.
You got this!