“And what about the lovers who spend hours staring into each other’s eyes?”
When you catch a pretty girl looking at you, do you do any of the following?
- Do you act awkward?
- Do you act uncomfortable?
- Do you not know where to look?
- Do you act aloof and stop caring?
- Do you expect women to come and chat you up?
- Do you ask the bartender to send her a drink from you?
Don’t worry you are not alone, I was like you and the above mentioned was everything I would do in that situation.
I guess I was never really properly educated into how to act in situations like that, so I just did what I felt was right.
Unfortunately whatever I felt was “right” was oh so wrong.
Here is the truth, if you see a cute girl looking over at you, chances are she is into you.
Yes you read that correctly, she finds you attractive and she wants to get to know you.
9 times out of 10, if she is glancing at you, playing with her hair, or smirking a little at you, it is because she wants you to notice her.
Yes there are times where girls may be playing with you, but most of the time she likes what she sees.
And that’s YOU buddy!
So the first thing you need to do is bloody look back!
Do NOT hesitate, or overcomplicate it at all, LOOK BACK.
By doing this, it shows you are confident, and you are willing to let her know the following with your eyes;
“Yes I see you looking at me….and you caught my attention…now here I am…”
Do not underestimate the importance of body language – EVER!
And as well as looking back, you of course need to smile too.
But do not smirk, frown, give a creepy smile back at all.
Be relaxed, be chill and just let her know you are welcoming, safe and cool.
By going over the top with your smiling can actually ruin the attraction, so just keep it chilled.
Then as you are looking at each other make sure you maintain eye contact for as long as possible.
So if you are with your friends at a bar, make sure you still talk to them and then occasionally glance over to see if the girl is looking at you still.
Do NOT just outright stare at her!
This is creepy territory, and we don’t need to go there ok?
So for a couple of minutes (don’t time it), smile back in her direction from time to time and then next do probably most important step where most guys don’t;
Women will always fall head over heels for a dude that goes after what he wants.
Forget those who tell you otherwise – they know nothing.
A woman loves an ambitious and fearless man.
And walking up to her after eye contact makes you stand out above the rest of the chasing pack.
Men who make moves, men who go for it, men who do not fear rejection are more attractive – always.
And as you approach her with confidence you reach your hand out and shake hers;
“Hey, I’m SCG by the way….”
It is the easiest opener, because she knows who you are already by looking at you.
She just didn’t know your name, and it from then onwards it is down to you to close.
Do not listen to any other advice on this, I’ve tried them all and none of it worked.
Try it next time you see a pretty girl looking at you.